Hey Ruben, looks like somebody has something to hide.
Seems you don't have any idea that this game shares a lot of common properties as social pages like FB, Twitter and chatrooms. MMORPGs expand on those by giving you an extra interactive dimension to use with your SOCIAL connections.
In Rohan, people like to have some idea what kind of person they are partying & sharing their scrolls with. They aren't so cool about sharing their experience with somebody that tells them to fk off when they ask information about them. It is called being sociable and is a large part of any MMO game -- you know, that whole cooperative gaming bit that makes MMO games popular to begin with.
That sounds like you are on your way out. Well gl with that and kthxby. I doubt you will get the full enjoyment of any MMO game since you really don't know how to use it top its fullest.